Part of the reason I joined was for more socializing. I tell my wife about picnics, dinners and stuff that she can go to and she rolls her eyes. She doesn't have a problem with me and the lodge, just time. But I should add that we do have a 2 year old daughter that may drive her nuts from time to time. So one night a week that I'm out is one night I don't help her.
I asked her about joining OES with a friend of mines significant other, she says she doesn't have time. If I have time she should have time. I do know how to take care of my daughter on my own, I taught my wife.....lol