exactly ! Where's is all this contention from outsiders who are not members of college Fraternities , much of what they do is a secret ? Some of what goes on in Rome with the Catholic church is kept secret and I do not know why a church should have anything to hide but I am still not worried about it . I am not Catholic so it is none of my business . And this is how I see things , if I am not a member of something and it is not open to non-members , then it is none of my business .