Very true Gary . Spankings are what kept me in line . I got to the point to where I would think to myself "will this get my butt busted ?" , if the answer was YES , then I refrained (but it took more than a few spankings to get that through my head) . My problem was not that I was disobedient , destroying others property etc; etc; . I was just adventurous to the point that I put my life in jeopardy , even at a very young age . Also , Living in the country miles away from the nearest kids my own age I became a daydreamer and could live in my own head so time-outs and groundings were not really a punishment , but a place I could think of new things to do , new adventures to try that I have not gotten into trouble over before . Or I could just dream up adventures for myself to keep my mind busy during time-outs and groundings .
I have noticed a couple of my nieces are the same way . Very imaginative , like I was , and during time outs I can hear them humming to themselves , they are day dreaming , so a time-out is not really a punishment for children who can live in their own minds . I could go on grand adventures in my mind during time outs/groundings , and I even put myself in what my parents called self imposed time outs to do it . I would seclude myself away in a room with no toys or games and could be happy for hours , because I have always liked my alone time even as a child . And my nieces are just like I was .