Posers and heros
[snip]I think the real heroes, like the real Masons, don't just toss it around. If anybody asked him, he would just say he went to 'Nam.
In the mid 70s, we had 2 Corpsmen in my USNR medical unit who were a good contrast.
One wore a chest full of medals and told all within earshot how tough it was "in the 'Nam" and all about Marines, leaches, malaria, and 30 day recons.
He came back from lunch one drill wearing only the National Defense Medal. Our C.O. had ordered him to wear only decorations he had earned.
We never saw him after that day.
The other was a very quiet seminary student, only drilling until he finished school. He wore no medals at all. One weekend we wore working uniforms to practice The Art of Self Defense, as taught by our Senior Corpman, John, a new brown belt. I got paired with "JB," and try as I might, even under direct instruction from John, I couldn't throw him. John questioned him if he had martial arts training, and he was evasive, but eventually admitted that he had been a SEAL. He didn't want to talk about it, he just wanted money to finish school, so he'd gotten the agreement that he could wear his uniform without medals or his BUDS device.
Dad didn't talk much about the Pacific war, either.
Me? I never heard a shot fired off the rifle range.
I was just the insurance policy that never had to pay off.
S&F