My Friend is like brother to me .We've been friends for 22 years. He has always has my back and helped out with anything I needed help on, And was always there if I needed advice or just someone to talk to. I don't want you guys get wrong idea, that I didn't want to go not support him, I've been to so many funerals over the years. The last one I went to was my grandma's, last year. I got kinda brunt out on going them was getting tired of people dying on me. I lost both my grandpas, my uncle, one of my friends, my great ant, my Aunt's ex-husband, he killed, himself after he got married to my Aunt, and then my grandma. Ya, I lost all those people though the years and I was hoping not to go anther for while. That's why I didn't want to go, not because I didn't want to be there for him. I just got tired of going to them.
But after doing some thinking, I realized that the right thing to do is to show up, he would do same thing for me if my mom died.