It is a major frustration on my part.
I became a FM to part of something that I am not allowed to because I am not a MM. I asked my mentor why and he said it was to give me a goal to become a MM.
What it has done is make me an E-Freemason, I have and will spend more time on this forum talking, debating, discussing, laughing, and meeting with Brethren than I will ever spend in Lodge twice a month.
Change is difficult, it destroys the safe container that has been created by and for the existing members and indoctrinates the new ones into the same mindset.