I was once asked by a friend whom I thought was very intelligent , that if we didn't want kids then why did we get married . I was surprised , I told him that we loved one another , why else would couples get married !?
I know couples who have gotten married because of a child and some who stayed married because of children and were miserable . I know this is not true of all marriages , but the wife and I do as we please , when we please , how we please , we play around and act silly , we are best friends and bottom line , we are happy the way we are . We are the center of each others world . I know it sounds selfish but I would hate to have a child and everything change .